Valentine’s Day is often seen as a time to express an ample amount of romance and appreciation. Listen, there are still people who believe in love. Here is a safe space to be unapologetic about the love you feel and want to express. Sure, chocolate and roses are a go-to for Valentine’s Day but there are plenty of ways to get creative and show some love.

I’ve curated a list of 14 romantic things to do this valentine’s day to inspire intimacy in ways outside of sex. Of course, that can be mixed into the day if you’re into the afternoon rendezvous. Days like these manifest into a lot spontaneity doesn’t it? 😉

#1 – Go on a Picnic

This is a date idea that is simplistic yet so special. Gathering together over food and the beverages of your choice with good convo and the sound of nature. Being outside together can spark your inner child, making you want to frolic and play and chase each other around. When’s the last time you played tag? If you’re close to the ocean or rivers, it can spice up your picnic by adding water sports. Going kayaking or paddle boarding is a fun activity to get the day started with a picnic to follow. Not by the water? Grab some bikes or skates!

#2 Design a Menu and Make dinner

Okay even though this was for a birthday dinner my partner designed for me a few years ago, it was one of the sweetest things someone’s done for me. It was an intimate dinner that we made together at an airbnb. We gathered the supplies, I cut open pineapples for us to drink out of, and we served ourselves a quality dinner and a romantic space. Highly ! Recommend even for Valentine’s Day.

Tip* I was surprised with the menu and we went to the grocery store together. If you know your partner’s favorites then a surprise menu is a great way to add to the thoughtfulness.

#3 Drive in Movie

Drive in movie! A retro way to experience cinema and each other intimately. Movie theaters can be cramped and the snack prices are high! Having a private space with your favorite snacks, your favorite person, and a great movie is a win.

An added plus, especially for my introverts and homebodies? This still gives you an excuse to get dressed and leave the house for the holiday, while still being cozy.

#4 Take a Wine + Painting Class Together

Looking for a relaxing way to spend your V-day? Unwind with some wine and painting. Note: This can definitely be enjoyed at home, saving you some money.

While wine isn’t necessary, this is a fun way to soothe the mind as you focus on your art piece along side your partner. Sharing and learning techniques. Who knows maybe you’ll find out you’re the next Picasso?